Eve, it wasn't me, unless maybe some parallel universe thing is going on! My spirit guide Peter was supposed to be my child in this life, but I chose not to have children many years ago and so never gave him the opportunity to incarnate. I felt quite terrible about that when I received that information, it about made my heart break, I love Peter a lot. I think we all have blueprints our souls and God and our team in spirit laid out for us to acquire certain needed "lessons" or "traits" (like virtues!) in this life, but I also believe we are free to make different choices than the *plan* called for originally.

Eve, that must have brought you and your daughter and the family much comfort to think of your loss in terms of your granddaughter at least never had to suffer.....she only knew love.....that is truly beautiful and a great comfort.

I have lost precious "kids" though, my first four dogs....Kodi on January 18, 1995....Ranger on November 11, 1999....Tosha on August 12, 2007....Max on June 14, 2009. This next month I have to face the one year anniversary and I'm already crying thinking about it. I miss every single one of my "fur kids" so very much. The dates they left this world to be in spirit are indelibly etched into my mind.