What a difficult position to be in Sue. You are a wonderful and compassionate person... so it is inherant that their are those that will exploit that... and take advantage of you. I have however seen you stand your ground.... hehehehe... so when push comes to shove... :) I bet it ticks off Dan to see this person hurt you and cause you stress.

Kasota... coincidence... this last week the very topic you mentioned I could talk about, popped into mind and made it into book 4. maybe book 5.... not sure as I am close to starting bk 5.